Can I start with a closed adoption and change my mind later? Until you sign any paperwork after the birth, you can change your mind about your adoption plan. After paperwork has been signed... This depends on the adoptive parents. Most adoptive parents are fine with opening an adoption later, but it may take time to build that relationship after placement. We advise talking to your caseworker about this. Are you ready to take the next steps on your adoption journey? Visit Adoption.org to learn m