What Kind of Criticism Can this Woman receive if she was a Zambian Mother In Zambia, many grown women are often shaped by cultural restraint—taught to value modesty over expression, silence over rhythm. Meanwhile, in Nigeria, a grown woman dances boldly, owning the floor with confidence, joy, and pride. She moves not for approval, but for herself—fearless, unapologetic, and free. One is watched, the other watches no one. | Tonga King